....well it had to happen. As before mentioned, I have a bad habit of losing jewelry....
And I lost the engagement ring part of the two ring set. It's somewhere in my Mother's car. But it has eluded me so far. I didn't even get to take a picture of it yet! I do have a picture of the other ring, the wedding ring. I guess I'm just not meant to have the set...or something.
Was in a real bad funk for the wedding, unfortunately. And let me explain it too.
Katie (my friend who got married) had told me "I'm not going to be having bridesmaids." and furthermore stated "Wofford (her husband), didn't want any groomsmen." and it was because of this statement, that made it clear.
"Wofford dosn't want anyone else between me and him." Meaning he couldn't wait to get to marrying her, which made a lot of sense. Me and him share a common bond: We both have ADHD. Meaning we would like it now, quick, and as best as possible! That and he loves her very much, which kinda is a two-fold deal.
So, Wofford's up on the platform, and Bud (some guy I know around church) helps the Bride & Groom's Mother's to their seats, then he walks Josie (Katie's sister) down the aisle. She stands where the Matron of Honor would stand.
I had figured, okay, if anybody else is going to be in the wedding, it would be Josie. That made a lot of sense to me. Even though Katie wouldn't have Bridesmaids, she had told me Josie would be up there anyways. Makes sense.
Then, Bud comes walking down the aisle with Katie Fox. The other Katie stands beside Josie. And then I look up there again, and I realize there's some other dude standing beside Bud.
That would make The Other Katie....a Bridesmaid.
Bride Katie had told me on many different occasions, that she would have no bridesmaids.
I don't know why, but I was seriously ticked off! I've known Bride Katie longer then Katie Fox has....I....I was really happy that Bride Katie had gotten married, and all.
And I was a crying wreck at the wedding, and so was Wofford's sister; whose name eludes me right now. But we seemed to be one of few who were crying. Then came the reception. I had kinda cooled off about the whole "The Other Katie got to be a Bridesmaid, and I didn't." deal....until I saw the large table up on the Preacher's platform, where the Bride and Groom would sit.
Jealousy reared it's ugly head again, when I saw that The Other Katie got to sit up there. Which honestly would make perfect sense. She was a bridesmaid, she got to sit up there, along with Bud, and Josie. The other dude who was a groomsman didn't want to sit up there, or something, so the last seat, beside Josie was occupied by her son (who is like maybe over a year old or something) Keith. Or 'Little Keith' as most of us call him, because he's named after Josie & Katies Dad.
I put on a smile, but I was just slightly fuming until it came to toss the bouquet, and I caught it perfectly. Then I was all smiles and stuff.
So maybe I was selfish or what. I really don't know. I honestly think there was maybe one person Bride Katie would have picked over me for a single Bridesmaid (other then Josie who I knew was already in it.) Would have been Lindsey. Who has known Katie longer then I have by about 1 year. (I've known Katie ever since she was 3 years old, and I was 5 years old.)
Wedding Ring