I know that too. I moved three times in the last five years.
But if I want a cold winter, I’d move to where the cold weather is, instead of waiting it to come to me. Because it may not come.
I almost moved to Florida, knowing full well it will be 80 degrees year round. I’d know going in we would have a green Christmas.
So maybe another blowtorch Christmas might prompt him to do something.
Unless he doesn’t want it bad enough.
If you have a tremendous desire to do something, you motivate yourself to do it, and you don’t quit until your goal gets done.
But just sitting there accomplishes nothing.