I have to admit that my statement about Jim Henson removing support being bigoted went a little too far. I acknowledge that there is a difference between restricting the rights of someone else versus being inclusive of everyone. Chick-Fil-A is certainly not handling this very maturely if they are indeed using fake Facebook accounts, but that does not change that they have the fundamental right to support non-profit organizations as they see fit. We may not agree with them, but it's still their right to support whatever they want. Just like you have the right not to eat there so that your money doesn't go to these organizations. Just like Jim Henson has the right to end their business relationship. So I was wrong on that count.
However, I think that we must remember freedom of thought, speech and conscience as being important as well. I think what some on the left might be missing is the fact that Christians feel as though their rights are being ignored. The message of tolerance rings hollow when Christians are not tolerated. I know, I know. You're going to scoff at this because who cares about someone's right to hate, right? But that's not the issue. The concern here is not the right to hate someone for their behavior, it's an issue of conscience.
Granted, I think most of this stems from the fact that a lot of Christians act like complete douchebags on this issue. The real truth of this issue has been lost in the fluff of the "God Hates Fags" demonstrations - which are terrible by the way. Most Christian position on this issue is not motivated by hate. It's motivated by fear. Some of that fear is mis-guided, like the belief that gay marriage will harm the family, but some of that fear I see as legitimate.
For example, I think there is a legitimate fear among conservative Christians that if gay marriage becomes law there may arise situations in which the law will require us to violate our conscience. This is not a trivial issue. It is one thing to allow others to conduct their lives as they see fit. It is another to be required to commit sin ourselves. In these situations we must make a choice of whether to obey God or man.
Unfortunately for Christians, we must realize that the cushy positions we've experienced over the last 400 years in this land has been the exception, not the rule. Church history is a long story of martyrs and religious persecution and we must be prepared for the freedoms we have enjoyed to be revoked. But honestly, how bad could this be? Compared to times when martyrs have been crucified, flayed and burned at the stake, how bad could being sued and fined be? Even still, it is a legitimate concern.
Would the law require that churches are no longer be aloud to preach what they believe the Word of God to say on this issue (
link)? Would the law require that churches be willing to perform marriages to gay couples even if the church disagrees with the practice as immoral (
link)? Doing so would violate the conscience of the church. If that's the case, then this has crossed the line from sexual orientation persecution to religious persecution.
Would churches be required to hire gays? Would churches be required to ordain gays? Would churches be required to provide benefits to gay spouses? Would churches be required to allow gays into membership? Would the law require that home schoolers teach their children that homosexuality is not a sin and ban teaching them from teaching what the Bible says on the subject?
I'm certainly not saying that any of these fears would ever become reality, but they are real concerns for the conservative Christians. And considering that this same level of debate is already being had over the issue of contraception with Obamacare, I think it's safe to say that this issue is going to take that turn at some point. I think if the LGBT community really is concerned with tolerance and inclusion of all, they must be willing to tolerate the conscience of Christians and religious institutions who would see certain behaviors they might be required to adopt as sinful. That would go along way to allaying these fears.
Unfortunately, those fears are never clearly articulated by the right because we're too busy sounding like we hate everyone, and most discussion on this issue devolves into flame wars, rhetoric, name calling and Godwin's law.
Just my two cents. I appreciate the discussion