I've been trying to keep it from my older brother that my cat Spencer died (his ex wife was Spencer's former slave) When Spencer died I said something on Facebook & my younger brother's wife gave her sympathy. I then realized that she was going to tell my younger brother (who I don't get along with at
all) So I told her to
please not say anything to my younger brother who would then tell my older brother , who would then tell his ex wife (the 2 still speak ,I guess for my 10 year old niece's sake

.)
I got a present from my oldest brother today & called him to thank him. He asked me how he did he not know that Spencer died? I asked him how he found out. So he told me everything I said ^^^^ up there. I realize that Spencer was old(17) & everything. But I
still feel like I'm in debt to (ex) sister in law even though she's the one that gave him up because he was puking around the house .(sorry to those that are eating)

(she had him til he was 7) I unfriended ex sis in law on FB a year or so ago .