Hehe, never thought I'd see the Joker being compared to gothic culture...
But yeah, it's definitely a phase I never want to go through again. I was online dating a girl who turned out to be underage (due bare in mind, it was one of those instances where the appearance makes one look older; in this case, a then-11-year-old, now 18, who looked 17; I was 18 at the time), but her and I had alot in common and she had feelings for me, likewise for me in return. But she too was going through a goth phase and that just kind of absorbed into my blood (but even beforehand, I always thought goth girls were pretty cute.... Dark and mysterious), but during my phase, it did make me a bit anti social and just made me feel like I hated myself. Almost lost some friends cause of that phase. But, months later, I slowly began to revert back to my old self.
(The black hair looks nice by the way).