I totally understand what you mean. For me though it's one character that gets to me that way. Wembly. I really understand him at this point in my life. I don't want to decide and yet I know I have to. What I decide to do now affects me forever and affects my siblings forever. I don't want to leave my friends or my home behind for college but if I find a college that really meets the needs of what I want to do I'm going to want to leave but I won't.
See the wembling?
30 minute work week sorta is getting to me now. I'll watch it to remind myself I'm getting close to that point in life and I'll hug my little Wembly doll close at night and cry sometimes while I draw or read. I hold close to my art and remind myself that's who I am supposed to be. To remind myself that I don't have to wemble I know who I am and what I want . . . I just am so like him. I want to please everyone.
So, watching Wembly reminds me that we both know what we want it's just getting it that's the hard part. Sometimes it's nice. It's nice to have a kindred spirit even if it is a puppet, if you follow me.