I think were both on the same page, but coming at it from two different angles. I'm not really trying to argue here, just stating some facts about copyright laws and the effects of piracy.
Just to address a couple of copyright myths you mentioned:
1.
Once you buy a CD/DVD it's yours and you can do whatever you want with it.
This is false. All you are doing by buying a recording to purchasing the right to utilize it
under certain circumstances. You don't own the recording, the artist does. You can't make copies to sell or even give away legally. You can't even legally show a copy of "Lord of the Rings" from Wal-Mart to a high school english class (schools have to purchase special copies of movies to legally show them publically). Lots of people break copyright law everyday, either because they are ignorant of the law or don't care. But it's still breaking the law.
2. CD burners were made for copying CDs
OK, they pretty much were. And the recording industry hates the manufacturers for it.
Truth is, again, there's no way to legally copy CDs/DVDs except the personal "safety" copy we discussed above. CD burners are legally only supposed to be used to copy your own work, or work that is in the public domain. Here in Canada they tax blank CDs and DVDs to help compensate artists who loose money to bootlegging with CD burners.
3. The Artists Are Rich Enough The Way It Is
I agree, copying her CD won't bankrupt Madonna. But it might cost the guy who works in the warehouse packing Madonna's CDs his job, or at least his next raise to help feed his family. The record industry has been sideswiped by illegal music downloading. I did a job at Universal Music last year and heard about and saw the effects of this myself.
It's just like those commercials before the movies say - piracy doesn't really hurt the "big people" but it costs everyone else in the entertainment industry - secretaries, warehouse people, recording engineers, film crews, etc. - billions of dollars every year. The CEO of some huge entertainment company won't cut his salary because he's lost millions this year; he'll cut the salaries of the "little people" who work for him.