Pen Pals and Secret Admirers

[Fozzie Bear]

haha! send letters and slip them under each other's door

Which makes me wonder, then: If someone lives in the same house as you do, can you stalk them? Hmm...

 

[Erine81981]

Then just forget about her and move on. I wouldn't wait on someone to start dating, and I wouldn't date someone in order to make someone else feel bad because it's likely she doesn't give a hoot enough to worry about it if she keeps telling you no. Just forget about her and move on. Not worth the worry.

I had a girl once that I was friends with and all was superbly good, and I discussed moving further in the relationship, but she said, "I don't date friends." I said, "So, what then? You'll date a stranger? At least you know we have much in common!" This was even after I had taken care of her for 3 days while she was sick. She said again, "I don't date friends, and I hope this doesn't come between our friendship." I said, "Nah, it's fine."

Well, I started seeing other gals, and she got totally miffed about it and called me screaming in the phone and hung up on me. Apparently, I was a horrible friend for not discussing my private/dating life with her and for "settling" for just "any ol' girl." This was one of those "wants the cake and icing, too" deals.

Thanks Kev. Now I can see how that goes. One of my works (good friend) told me that and I would never give up. Thanks for the advice. Now I would love to have an exchange student. Now that would be fun.

 

[Muppetsdownunder]

Which makes me wonder, then: If someone lives in the same house as you do, can you stalk them? Hmm...

I spose if you went in the bathroom whilst they were in there it would be considered stalking but if they were out and you were following them it wouldnt be stalking because you live in the same place. Its probably stalking if you install surveilance cameras in the excahnge students room though!

 

[sarah_yzma]

I spose if you went in the bathroom whilst they were in there it would be considered stalking but if they were out and you were following them it wouldnt be stalking because you live in the same place. Its probably stalking if you install surveilance cameras in the excahnge students room though!

yes....cameras in the shower would probably be considered stalking....or if YOU were in the shower when they got in.....


don't do that Erin....

 

[Muppetsdownunder]

If you were in the shower when they got in you could say they were stalking YOU!

 

[sarah_yzma]

hmm...and the mystery begins

 

[Fozzie Bear]

If you were in the shower when they got in you could say they were stalking YOU!

Or say, "I'll soap your back if you soap mine." It'd be less abrasive than using those horrible back brushes. OW!

 

[Erine81981]

WHAT HAS THIS TURNED INTO?

Some kind of talk about going out with your secret admirers then having fun in the bathroom tub?

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

 

[sarah_yzma]

we're just a REALLY close group

 

[Muppetsdownunder]

we're just a REALLY close group

We sure are! I think its my fault for the topic change here. sorry about that!