Rosewood said:
Mabey your right here and I am wrong. Or mabey we are both right. I'm willing to aknowledge your opinion and take it into concideration. When I made the statement "setting aside our defferences" in no way did I mean forgetting them. All I was trying to say is that, as of late, I feel that segregation has been growing stronger here in the U.S.A. I feel it in my city, my state, and my neigborhood where I live. I even see it happening in my own religion, where people are no longer going to church based on where they live (for this specific religion) but rather based on weather you are white, or black, or latino. I see huge ethnic groups formimg all over the U.S. Rather than becoming aquainted with EVERYONE who lives around them, people are simply choosing to become aquainted and associated with their "own kind". It's frustrating! Along my own subdivision, we have a massive example of segragation - on my street alone, we have a single lady across the street, a group of bikers next door to her, a very reclusice family next to them, and next to them, a gay couple. My "better half" and I held a "get to know your neigbor party" this summer out on our front lawn, a "street party" if you will. We sent out invitations to every one along our street. We even provided the main dish for the food. Our goal was to get every one to know each other. You know who showed up? The reclusive couple! That was it! It was as if no one had any interest in getting to know each other. THAT kind of situation is what I was refering to when I said we should lay our differences aside and become united as a country. Like you said, SS already lives it. Wouldn't it be great if we could get our own neiborhoods to do the same?
I am sorry for my jerkeyness Rosewood, I was the one who was being judgemental about you, and I now see the error of my ways and completely understand where you are coming from, and wholehartedly agree with you. I too konw what it feels like for segeration to rear it's ugly head on the people on this great country that we call America, and lets just face it, it's painful for everybody. I now realize that you were only trying to bring people together.
We could just be saying the same thing and not realise it. Lets say the You and I were friends, and you liked Big Bird and I liked Snuffy. well, we both respect the fact that each of us likes a different character, but we don't let the fact jeoparidze out frindship.
We have both just sucessfully respected each others opinions and put aside our differences when it came to our frendship, and it did not tear us apart, but brought us and kept us closer together. That is what I think Sesame street is about.
Mabey Sesame Street is not about just respecting differences, or setting aside difference, but about working out differences, or all three. I know that Sesame Street teaches is no matter what who you are or wher your from, that that does mean that you can't get along or be friends with somebody and that you can also appreciate the uniqueness of every individual that makes them who they are, and no two people are exactly alike.
Differences do seperate people, and I thought the reason for that was partly due to a missunderstanding, and I felt that Sesame Street was trying to feel that void by helping children understand those differences, and why they may be differtent, and through that understanding, they could respect those differences, and still be who they are, but because they are different, they can see past that and get along and even be good friends with other human beings.
It's like that that sketch with those two little girls who's mothers were braiding their hair different ways, when the girls saw each others hair, they both thought the way the other ones hair was briaded was wrong, and it esclated to the point were they both desided not to be friends anymore. then both of their mothers came in and when they found out what the problem was, they explained that even thow they both have different hair styles, that didn't mean that they couldn't be friends anymore. When they relised this they noticed how pretty each others hair was and apologized to each to each other.
I guess I see what you meant when you said that we should set aside our differences, seeing consequiences of what can happen if you don't, but once the mother helped them understand that people can have some differences and still be friends, they not only remained friends, but they learned to appreciate that about each other.
I know that with adults, it is more complex than that, seeing that they are already set in their ways.
You are a beautiful person and I was totally wrong about you.
Much love, Ilikemuppets.