I had a run-in with this last summer at an art camp I was volunteering at. There were about 100 kids, so each of the volunteers had to keep track of about 5. In my group the first day, one of the kids told me he wanted to be a magician when he grew up He asked me if I was going to be an artist, and I told him I was going to become a puppeteer. He gave me a cocky look (the kind kids give you when they think they know more than you and think you're really weird [all you parents out there can identify]) and naturally went off about how "puppets are for babies". (What an insightful young man!
) So I told him how being a puppeteer was like being a magician in that you make people think that something else is alive when it really isn't. So I connected with him on his interest level and then he had a better understanding of what puppetry really is. I got some respect out of him for connecting on his level.
One other thing that happened to me was when I was younger I tried to form a puppetry club. Only two of us really cared realistically about puppetry, and the rest were just my friends who I wanted in the "club" just to help out with filming little skits. Anyway, one of these friends was having trouble finding his true interests and puppetry was looking less and less interesting to him because he wanted to find something else. So his mom asked him why he wasn't doing puppets with me anymore and he said they were for little kids. She came back at him and explained that when you watch Sesame Street, those aren't little kids undr the puppets, they're adults (physically, anyway). It takes maturity to be able to perform a puppet exquisitly. That opened his eyes again.
I hope these situation remedies can help a little.
--"Scary" Larry Wolf