Perhaps abiraniriba considers many of the other members of this board to be friends to whom he can come to for advice. Having gone through a few pregnancy related problems (with my wife), I can certainly understand wanting to talk about it with other people.
And honestly, you guys saw the title of the thread, you knew about the previous thread, you knew it would probably be more info on a subject that obviously bothers you and yet you chose to click on this thread anyway?
If you thought it was something that was going to upset you, why didn't you just ignore it?
As for the 41 day cycle thing, I'd say start at day 12, just like a 28 day cycle and then don't quit until day 22 in case it's another 41!