My mother is looking absolutely great thank you Kyle. The redness from her face after receiving all her radium has well nigh faded and her eyes, nose, mouth and tongue are all slowly healing as well. She must have such deep Christian faith. She's told me she's never shed any tears or blamed God in any way for her cancer. She just accepts what comes her way and praises God for the way He has taken care of her during chemo and radium therapies. In the hospital she stayed in once or twice she even found a Bible placed there for the public to read and read portions of Scripture hearing God speak to her through the Sacred text
And as for what you said in your post Snowthy, I think what it amounts to is that it's completely up to us whether we are "true-blue friends" to our professed friends or not. Friendship is an individual choice. You may have been a true-blue friend to all these people who rejected you Snowthy, because you genuinely liked them all. But in the end they proved themselves to be ungrateful for your friendship.
It's sad and hurtful I know, but at least you find out who your true-blue friends are. And God is of course the ultimate true-blue friend who can always be depended upon and never makes mistakes. I could possibly hurt my friends un-intentionally because I am tainted with sin as much as you might hurt me in some way with your failings.
But praise God He is the conduit that binds our true friendship together leading us back to Him and reconciling us with each other through Christ.