The title of this thread is a Yogi-ism. Referring to the Yankees Hall of Fame catcher of the 50's and 60's who said a lot of crazy things.
Examples:
"It ain't over 'til it's over."
"I didn't say all the things that I said."
The answer to the question is yes. Michael Jackson did what he did, and didn't do what he didn't do. Did Michael Jackson do what he has been accused of? I say yes but I am biased against him. No grown man should sleep in the same bed with little boys unless those little boys are his own family. I don't care how rich, eccentric or talented a person is, that's not right. It's okay to want to take care of sick or underprivileged children. It's okay to invite them to your house and allow them to experience all the wonderful things you've built on your property. It's okay to bring in their families and shower them with gifts and attention. It is not okay to use them as your own private playthings, pretending you are Peter Pan and they are Lost Boys. It is not okay for parents to leave their children alone with such a person. The mother in this case is just as at fault as Jacko. Her attention has been on money and materialism rather than the safety and well-being of her son. The adults involved have been anything but, and a child is paying dearly for it.