What is WRONG with some people?

[RedPiggy]

Wow ... congrats.

 

[HootsytheOwl]

bullies

Hi guys

I know about bullies myself. Being disabled as well I was hit with books repeatedly.... and daily, even sometimes. (which contributed to my post-concussion syndrome) tripped a lot ( which made me fall more) spat on and etc etc. Plus the name calling, and people making fun of me relearning to walk right again (And we didn't have a rehab PE program, so I had to do it in front of everyone else.) I've had a dissection knife held to my throat, a stupid coach kick at my stomach when I was lying on the ground weak from hypoglycemia...telling me to get up and run, instead of getting help. And the principal telling me if he could get up to the top floor from outside in time for the bell so could I ( I have severe asthma, too) We had to call Easter Seals to come in and straighten the teachers out, but they did nothing to the students. I'm just glad I graduated and got the heck outta there. I will never go back to that school again to see anyone I knew.....only to play guitar for the children there (I am a guitarist, and that is part of my usual audience)

So, Katzi, I know what ya mean. Bullies leave scars. Some do not heal. No one has apologized, no one will. ( I don't know, maybe it's this geographical area, lol. As for atta-boys I wet to my 5 year reunion hoping for that, with my guitar....and I got 2 " heck yeah she's good ( on guitar)" comments and that is is....was still shunned. So no more. I am safe here though with all of you and with my people who love me. I will stay where I am wanted. That is all.

Your dear friend,
Kitt

 

[RedPiggy]

Well, it's kind of like divorce: it's wonderful if everyone can get along afterward. I don't know what that's like. I don't know what it's like to grow up with friends who honestly cared about me. It always ended up being more about them than me -- and I was labeled selfish and spoiled for daring to ask that sometimes they look at things from my perspective. Lots of people tell me I should get along with my father. Yeah. That's not going to happen, not when he demands an apology for saying he's responsible for divorce. In his little delusional mind, the abuse and divorce was the kids' fault because we should have understood why he felt so out of control. When people say they've made amends with others, I can be happy for them and congratulate them ... but I certainly can't relate. I have no common ground to sympathize. I live with a mother and a brother with personality and attachment issues, and they like to call me delusional. I suppose they have a point, and it can seem my hopeful optimism can seem like a delusional defence mechanism, but I have to do something to get through the day living with them, LOL.

 

[Katzi428]

Hi guys

I know about bullies myself. Being disabled as well I was hit with books repeatedly.... and daily, even sometimes. (which contributed to my post-concussion syndrome) tripped a lot ( which made me fall more) spat on and etc etc. Plus the name calling, and people making fun of me relearning to walk right again (And we didn't have a rehab PE program, so I had to do it in front of everyone else.) I've had a dissection knife held to my throat, a stupid coach kick at my stomach when I was lying on the ground weak from hypoglycemia...telling me to get up and run, instead of getting help. And the principal telling me if he could get up to the top floor from outside in time for the bell so could I ( I have severe asthma, too) We had to call Easter Seals to come in and straighten the teachers out, but they did nothing to the students. I'm just glad I graduated and got the heck outta there. I will never go back to that school again to see anyone I knew.....only to play guitar for the children there (I am a guitarist, and that is part of my usual audience)

So, Katzi, I know what ya mean. Bullies leave scars. Some do not heal. No one has apologized, no one will. ( I don't know, maybe it's this geographical area, lol. As for atta-boys I wet to my 5 year reunion hoping for that, with my guitar....and I got 2 " heck yeah she's good ( on guitar)" comments and that is is....was still shunned. So no more. I am safe here though with all of you and with my people who love me. I will stay where I am wanted. That is all.

Your dear friend,
Kitt

Wow Kitt!
I just picked up my jaw from the floor. You really had it tough compared to me. I am SO sorry! As for wanting to go back to that school,do I blame you? Absolutely not! And those teachers & coach that gave you grief? Ugh! Even though Easter Seals had to straighten them out, their behavior is still inexcusable
But like you said,you're safe now.And we care about you ((((((Kitt))))
Kathy

 

[Nick22]

I was labeled selfish and spoiled for daring to ask that sometimes they look at things from my perspective.

i get that all the time. and i honestly dont think im all that selfish, but i guess in other peoples eyes i was...