Did you at least get to go on a date?
The way it's supposed to work, a couple go out a few times- go for dinner, movie, ice cream, whatever- to see how much they like each other.
After a few times going out, and they find there is a bond between them, THEN they become boyfriend/girlfriend.
If you broke up twice, and don't even have one date to show for it, you BOTH got screwed.