It's not even that for me... it's the whole issue of sweeping gays under the rug, throwing them under a bus, etc. for the sake of getting votes, money or power by other means. Exploiting people, blaming a certain group or type of people and singling them out for what they are is how dictators like Hitler and Milosovich (however the heck you spell that) came into power... and we DON'T want to see that happen here.I don't care what kind of pressure the mods are getting (and considering how often this thread is pegged for deletion, I have to assume that's what is going on). We're members too. If someone think gay marriage is icky and doesn't belong on a Muppet forum, remind them this is a site that has aliens with chickens, pigs with bulls, pigs with frogs, whatever Animal's parents were, etc, and move on with your day. If they want to remain sheltered, they should shelter themselves. While I'm not gay, it's rather offensive that this particular topic always seems to get stuck in people's craw. Gay people exist. A lot of gay people would like to get married. There are those who would dismiss this entire group just for the sake of ancient stories where the details are mostly lost in historico-cultural fogs.
Now, I don't think any of the members here who belong here mean any harm. There's just something to do with how they were raised, and while I can't say that it's enlightened to accept something that's been debated at face value, it's unfortunately their right to think that way... provided they know that people will disagree with that.
However, bullying, blaming, fearing, converting, and all that stuff IS barbaric. NO ONE wants to restrict anyone's rights... well, very disturbed people do, but rational thinking people realize a lot of stuff doesn't matter anyway, because... well... Wedge issues polarize and divide people and scare them into voting for people that would gladly step on the gas if they walked across the street.
People like the Bachmans aren't "Oh, we don't agree with gay marriage" or "Sorry, I feel it's a sin" (I don't care much for that, but if it's respectful we have to just leave it be)... they're the "we need to get rid of them" and "We need to make a profit off the government with proven dangerous methods." NO ONE HERE is like that. Any anger isn't aimed at members who just happen to believe in something that makes no sense to the others, it's aimed at people who MATTER!