I agree, Buck. I often perform my puppets at my church, but NEVER at children’s church. I usually will be doing some sort of banter with the Pastor, and I am standing to the front or side of the main platform holding the puppet up above me. I am not the primary focus, but I am not hidden at all. I always get great responses afterwards, but many people are surprised to find that they enjoyed the puppets!
As a puppeteer, magician, juggler, etc. I am sick to DEATH of being thought of as a “kiddie performer”. I always say to prospective clients, “I do not perform for kids, although kids are always welcome at my show.” I explain that there is nothing “blue” in my shows, but that they are directed towards adults. I do not have any shows that are directed solely at kids.
A number of years ago I actually entered a talent contest being held at a bar in rural Montana. The other acts were singing loud music and the like, and the guy right before me was a “comedian” who told the filthiest “jokes” I have ever heard. The judges laughed quietly, and you could tell that they were just embarrassed. They were ashamed of themselves for laughing. Then I got up to do my squeaky-clean magic show. During my first trick, all the people sitting at the bar stopped their conversations to listen to me. By the end of the trick they all left the bar and came into the main room where I was, and they were joined by all the people who had been shooting pool and playing the poker machines. For the next 20 minutes I entertained them with a show that you could have brought your grandmother to see, without fear of inappropriate material.
I am very pleased to report that I won the contest, but for me the best victory was proving that “adult” entertainment does not have to mean “dirty” entertainment. In an environment where rude, loud behavior is the norm, where dirty jokes are told all the time, I brought something that was genuinely entertaining and for my 25 minutes I had that room in the palm of my hand... and I showed them kindness and respect in turn.
It is a sad fact of our industry that we actually must “push” people to realize that what we do is not strictly for kids. But if that’s what we must do, then let’s do it!