People say stupid, foolish things everyday. We can't be so thin skinned about it. We teach children to watch what they say and punish them when they don't because they are young and still learning. But you can't treat an grown adult like that. If they never learned manners, that's their problem, not yours.
There's a good point in that. What he says shouldn't matter, except that he's a celebrity. There's that whole "media culture" crap debate in here as well. However, he
is a public figure, and public figures that say stupid, hateful, backward, disagreeable, and anything that characterizes them as a humongous D-bag
are prone to backlash. That is
our freedom of speech as much as it is for him to condemn everyone around him. Everything he said was offensive, and it's our right to
be offended by it.
That said, again this is all huge disproportionate retribution. Free speech or not,
words can screw up your career. Not because of a lack of freedom of speech, but when you're a beloved figure or the owner of a company, saying something idiotic can cause people to turn on you. Some jerk that owned a yoga pants (or something) store defended the crappiness of his product and blamed women's figures (essentially calling everyone who bought his products fat), and that huge backlash caused him to have to step down. Then there was that movie critic that, instead of giving a review of a movie, wrote about how fat and disgusting Melissa McCarthy was. No one takes him seriously anymore, can't tell if his career is over, but he got his but handed to him one way or another.
Then there's the case of Michael Richards. While there's no defending that at all, it came from a place of anger and passive aggressiveness. He was being heckeled, and he responded in the
worst blow up ever. Now, while there legitimately was a group of people who were offended, most people thought this was
the funniest thing ever. And when he tried to give a heartfelt apology, it was
even funnier. This was
the humiliation conga. A C-list celebrity who had
one memorable role (two if you're totally into UHF) who hasn't had a legitimate gig in years who gets no respect at a comedy club because his material was bad being constantly heckled by 2 audience members in particular who went into this passive aggressive hateful tirade in a shabby excuse to try to get back at them and shut them up who actually
did feel bad about it and completely lost whatever career he could have had right then and there giving an apology that seems like a Michael Scott joke on the Office. Admit it... you felt bad for this guy
but watched Seinfeld awkwardly about it.And yet, he was able to make fun of himself on the Curb your Enthusiasm (which he was only hired as part of an in show Seinfeld reunion). If you have humility like that, you at
least know you're wrong and did something bad.
So yeah. Phil is
worse than Michael Richards.