More girl troubles!

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Looking for relationships can be hard for everyone. Boys can be cruel too of course, heh.

 

[mikebennidict]

Now that I'm in college, I have a little more to choose from (literally, in high school, my graduating class had four girls in it). Well, the only girl I'm interested in now is a girl named Mercedes (I know, could her name be any sexier? ). Blond hair, Southern twang to her voice, belly button pierce, gorgeous, just gorgeous. Well, anyway, I really wanna get to know her better, so we exchange e-mails. I e-mail her once, and then she tells me "Oh, I don't even have a computer. I check my e-mail at the library, though not very often". So, I get through my boring English class and meet Mercedes and ask her to go to Starbucks with me. She says "Oh, I'm not sure; why don't you e-mail me?" So, clearly it's up to me to make the next move, but she's playing the same games with me that I had to put up with in high school. I mean, I know she'll end up hurting me, but my heart must be a glutton for punishment. Every girl I've ever been interested in does this to me. You would've thought I'd've learned, but aparently I haven't. So, if anyone has any advice, I'll take it, because I trust all of you.

Well obviously you shouldn't go after girls who are like that. Or at least I feel people like her are giving you the message they they don't want you around so maybe you better look around a little bit more.

 

[Ilikemuppets]

Maybe she was loking to berak up with that guy or something, or just really likes it when her man gets in a fight, G-Man? I've been tease be many a girl before only to figure that there is just no way of telling if they really have feeling for you or not. It can really take a tool on somebody feelings. I guess maybe you have to consider what was meant by it and how they interperted it. Anyway, as is like I guess.

Ahh...Love. It always make you a sucker for it and it and you just keeo trying and don't give up on it. It traps you and you never get out and keep falling for it everytime no matter how smart you may be. It just has a kind of power over you. It put you under a spell and your just subjest to it.

It natural for kids that just got out of high school to still act inmmature. It's that same thing when you start high school, all the Freshmen ard still very much in middle school. So this is natural. There was tis one girl who I had gotten to know pretty well in high school, named Vanessa. I didn't know if she like me or not bet we became pretty good friend. But onw day unbeknowist to me, she told one of her friends that she liked me. Well, her friend dragged her over to me face to face. She started freaking out and trying to escape her and I was wondeing what was wrong. Her friend had imformed me that she liked me while vassana was screaming over her to drown out what she was saying and was like "NO!!!" And was just covering her fast and shaking her head and laughing in embarresment and just going on. And I just shook my head and then she walked out with Vanessa. The next moring I went over to where she usually sit and she ran off. Well I has her friens where she had went, and they told me that she was in the bathroon throwing up. She did have a hard tome taling to me for the rest of the year and didn't really say anything about it to me. I know that Caroline does not want to hear this, but I would not have minded if she had kind of been more up front with it.

But for some reason, that has happen to me so many time in my life. Where somebody really likes you, but is afraid to let you know it for whatever reason. Maybe it's nervessness, maybe plain hadt to get, but I don't know. I know that you have been out through a lot when all the girls that you have been hurt by, but I would say that if you really like this girl to keep persuing her. But you you can't take that hurt or rejaction again, then maybe you should not get into love for a while. You never know, Sometimes you just try to hard and get so caugh up and if you relise that if you just do not give it so much worry, that real love will come to you. But It you can build up the courage to tell her how you really feel, and she does't like you back, then you just have to move on. But somtimes you just have to give her some space and allow her to to really kinda get het though's together. What I have learned is somtimes you just have to give it some time when you do not get a direst response.

Maybe she has ben wronged by boy herself and is playing you because she feels that is may be getting played herself. In other words, maybe she is in shock and disbelief or does not believe that you are being serious. So maybe you need to give her some time to see that you really are. it's possible that your such a nice guy that you are just simple to good to be true. So maybe you need to show her that trust and that their really is a honest guy out there for her.

Anyway, I hope that that make sense. But goog luck!
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