Here's my sob story

[Princeton]

I go back to school the 19th but am not sure if I should be looking forward to going back. Last year, there was a new girl in my class named Claire and I immediately fell in love. She said she wanted to be just friends, which I was okay with. A month after that, she started dating a guy who is an ugly jerk, yet she thinks he's SOOO sexy. So, as the year went on, as much as I tried to deny it, I realized I was still in love with her and that we would've been so right for each other. Her dad is a missionary and she told everyone she was going to Egypt, which I thought would be good so that I could move on. So, I find out that she is coming back to school this year and I'm nervous to go back to the emotional abuse that I had to put with last year. And I don't think her and her signicicant other have any plans to break up, because sometime in October will be their 1 year anniversary as a couple, which I know my class is going to make a big deal out of.

So, can anybody help me to feel better about this? Thanks!

 

[Ernie101]

Bro, Here is what you must do.

I had a problem like this but not exactly..

However, the girl told me she wanted to be friends..so what you do.. is seperate yourself from this girl for a while..and look for someone else...and once you find someone else.. you will not look back.

 

[scarylarrywolf]

I had a problem like this too. I really liked this girl sophomore year and I asked her to the winter prom/banquet thing. Well, I thought things were going well until I came back from break and found she was going out with some guy who she thought was really hot from her martial arts class. Anyway, I just kept treating her nicely and being myself. I gave her pink roses for Valentine's Day and all. She really didn't respond much... until she finally realized that the guy she was dating wasn't treating her right and it was a relationship based on looks. So we ended up getting together

We were together for 1 1/2 years, but I ended up developing some strange anxiety problems and we just weren't as compatable as we would have liked to have been. We stepped out of the relationship at the beginning of summer, but still on really good terms.

So my advice is to respect the fact that right now she's with another guy, but give her "samples" of how you'd treat her if she gave you a chance. She can still change her mind in the long run and figure out you're better for her. Girls are always changing their minds

 

[McFraggle]

So my advice is to respect the fact that right now she's with another guy, but give her "samples" of how you'd treat her if she gave you a chance. She can still change her mind in the long run and figure out you're better for her. Girls are always changing their minds

Very good advice.

 

[Princeton]

Hey guys, guess what? THEY BROKE UP!!!!!!!! I noticed they were avoiding each other; I had hoped it was true, and it is. So, now I'm in quite a pickle; should I ask her out again(probably not, she'd just say "no"), or should I just "close the door and walk away"(Avenue Q reference )?

 

[Princeton]

Thought it would be appropriate to revive this thread because today was my last day of school! Claire has become a distant memory, and I have moved on. This past school year has treated me well, but yet has been a bittersweet one at that. This year's crush was a girl named Becca. She graduates this year(tonight, actually) and naturally I am sad(even though we never went out) because I don't want her to walk away and totally forget about me. Also, she's having a party which I am invited to. Now, even though we're very good friends, she has a tendency of ignoring me. I plan to go and all, but there's always the possibility of her ignoring me. Any help would be appreciated. I love you guys. Thanx!

 

[Fragglemuppet]

I say go to the party, and that should give you a better idea of how she feels about you. Good luck, and I know that you will eventually find the girl that's right for you.

 

[That Announcer]

Trust me, Princeton, you will. I'm still looking, but I've got a couple in mind... (If one of you is here and you know who I am, send me a PM.) I won't tell you who. But trust me, you'll definitely find someone. It really is good to move on. I've had to do that once or twice myself. And I've learned through experience that the single best antidote in the entire universe is to watch the Gene Kelly episode of the Muppet Show.

Good luck! -Liam

 

[Muppetsdownunder]

Girls are strange creatures (no offence). I've been through lots of mental torture with them and still have got nowhere. Even when they say you are their friend they still ignore you. Dont get upset and try not to expect too much and just hope for the best.

 

[Princeton]

Sorry I'm so late in replying. The party went very well; she actually didn't ignore me at all! However, now I run into another problem. After this summer, I'll be a senior. I planned on graduating from my current school but now am not so sure. On the one hand, my fellow classmates really like me and wanted me to graduate with them. Yet on the other hand, this school holds too many memories of Becca for me to handle. So I'm asking for your help once again. Should I graduate from my current school or arrange to be home-schooled? Thanx!