Why are today's kids so spoiled?

[mo]

watch this:

if that's not enough try watching toddlers and tiaras or extreme kids parties without cringing
seriously I'm not into growing up!

 

[kyunkyua]

You sure they're not acting? That happens a lot in this sort of news story.

 

[Hubert]

I used to think like that. I would say "What are the kids these days coming to, they are so spoiled!" But really, that's the least of my concern anymore. There is so many other horrible things going on that it seems pointless to worry about kids being spoiled. We more need to be concerned about kids being exposed to R rated movies and stuff like that, which they basically are.

Now Toddlers and Tiaras, that's a completely different story. I don't even think some of the kids like doing it. It's their parents, their selfish parents, dressing their children up like Barbie dolls. The children are being ruined with the lies they are receiving on this. The quote of one: "Facial beauty is the most important think in life."

 

[Drtooth]

We more need to be concerned about kids being exposed to R rated movies and stuff like that, which they basically are.

Actually... what gets me REALLY angry is that they have to cut the heck out of every movie to fit some arbitrary ratings system. They have to make R rated movies PG-13 so kids can watch them. Not to mention the fact PG is the most arbitrary of the time, and they're usually G movies with a crappy fake PG slapped on them because that's the "edgy" sweet spot. Only Pixar gets away with G rated movies, and that's because of their prestige. The only movies I've seen worthy of a PG rating were Rango and Pirates: Band of Misfits for mild cussing and cases of actual violence.

 

[Hubert]

Actually... what gets me REALLY angry is that they have to cut the heck out of every movie to fit some arbitrary ratings system. They have to make R rated movies PG-13 so kids can watch them. Not to mention the fact PG is the most arbitrary of the time, and they're usually G movies with a crappy fake PG slapped on them because that's the "edgy" sweet spot. Only Pixar gets away with G rated movies, and that's because of their prestige. The only movies I've seen worthy of a PG rating were Rango and Pirates: Band of Misfits for mild cussing and cases of actual violence.

I'm not quite sure what movies you are watching that they're cutting stuff out so kids can watch them. Horrible, inappropriate R-rated movies are out constantly, to the point where there's more of them then G and PG stuff. The movie makers do not care at all whatsoever if kids can watch them. They know a million kids will see them anyway between sneaking into theaters and watching them online or on TV. I think it is seen as an accomplishment to these film makers when their movies are rated R. They feel that the R rating entices more kids to watch the movie.

On G and PG movies, I think a lot of times adding the fake PG is to get more box office money. A lot of kids these days see G movies as ones for babies. Rango and Pirates: Band of Misfits are the only two you find worthy of a PG rating???

 

[Drtooth]

I'm not quite sure what movies you are watching that they're cutting stuff out so kids can watch them. Horrible, inappropriate R-rated movies are out constantly, to the point where there's more of them then G and PG stuff. The movie makers do not care at all whatsoever if kids can watch them. They know a million kids will see them anyway between sneaking into theaters and watching them online or on TV. I think it is seen as an accomplishment to these film makers when their movies are rated R. They feel that the R rating entices more kids to watch the movie.

Kids that watch R rated movies know what's going on. The kind of kid that basically makes sexual jokes at an inappropriate age and swears like a sailor that stepped on a nail. It's not really corrupting people who aren't corrupted already. Remember, for the longest time, young boys find girls absolutely disgusting. I don't think they'd want to watch those movies for the sexual content, but rather the content of violence. And it's getting to the point where regular TV programs are starting to get a LOT more violent than the movies. Even Law and Order type shows. Everyone's always being violated by something.

But the thing is, R rated movies aren't always soft core porn. Sometimes they're just kung fu movies that get those ratings under dubious reasoning. I have a cousin that had to sneak into Legend of the Drunken Master. I never got to see that, but I'm sure it could have gotten a PG-13 rating.

What I'm saying is the ratings system is fixed. The MPAA is pure evil and destroys movies.

Like, remember the movie "Bully," an independent movie that touched on the subject of what bullies do and how they affect kids... a movie that EVERY kid of a certain age should see got an NC-17 rating? And guess why. Nope... not sex. Language. Language you can get away with in a PG-13 movie if you have clout in Hollywood and play the MPAA's game. Eventually, they cut out a couple F bombs (dude... the internet is FULL of F bombs, I'm sure your kid can handle it... he probably says it all the time) and made it a Not Rated. So basically, Indie films get completely screwed over because they have no control over content and the other Mafioso crap that the MPAA does.

Remember... these are the lobbyists that wanted SOPA.

 

[mo]

I believe that we should be focusing more on this subject then kids being spoilt....around the area I live a lotta kids normaly watch what they want and the parents do give a straw about what the kids watch...It's a good place but it could have more responsible care takers! I think I've been raised pretty dang good,and I've only seen one r-rated movie and my friend had seen it before...then I went to middle school where you hear the f word so much you don't relize it's a bad word and the kids scream at you for doing nothing...well now I relize what life is all about
-drugs
-alcohol
-r movies
-abuse
-some other stuff I should'nt say...
I used to be niave and now I'm...slightly less niave?...yeah that works!
all the bunnys in my giggly field of life have been shot and now everything smells like body odeor.

 

[Hubert]

Kids that watch R rated movies know what's going on. The kind of kid that basically makes sexual jokes at an inappropriate age and swears like a sailor that stepped on a nail. It's not really corrupting people who aren't corrupted already. Remember, for the longest time, young boys find girls absolutely disgusting.

Which is pretty much every kid anymore...

I have to disagree with you a tad on this. The kids who watch R rated movies don't always know. In fact, a good majority of people figure that stuff out through R rated movies. They just watch it to be cool or to see what it's like or whatever, and then they're hooked. They learn. It is corrupting people not corrupted already. As horrid has it may sound, there is a such thing as swearing 5-year olds. And I don't mean the accidental one-time swear.

And also, the boys find girls disgusting case isn't always relevant anymore. Many kids these days zip through that phase.

What I'm saying is the ratings system is fixed. The MPAA is pure evil and destroys movies.

The MPAA does in fact keep corruption out a good bit. Think what would happen if we had no ratings. A parent sits down to watch a movie with their kids having no idea if it will be a fun family movie or a swearing inappropriate movie. In fact, while you are saying they give movies PG when they should be G, I'm over here saying that some PG should really be PG-13.

 

[D'Snowth]

As horrid has it may sound, there is a such thing as swearing 5-year olds. And I don't mean the accidental one-time swear.

Part of the problem is, and I'm dead serious about this, a lot of people out there actually feel that it's completely acceptable for kids to swear after kindergarten. I am not lying, sometimes those kids are ENCOURAGED to swear; when I was in middle school, yes, if teachers or faculty heard us swearing, we got in trouble for it (in grade 6, I got in the worst trouble ever for accidentally dropping the frog-bomb loud enough for people to hear me), but those kids willingly sweared as much as they liked when teachers weren't listening. First four weeks I was in public high school, one time in class, the teacher dismissed a student for disruptive behavior, and she actually had the gaul to stand up in front of his desk and exclaim, "You want me to take my s--- with me?!"

I've said it before, and I'll keep saying it until people finally decide to do something about it: we live today in a constant and ongoing moral decay in today's modern, comtemporary society. We have the power to make things right again, but people don't want to because they view doing the right then as being a wimp, or a pantywaist, or "uptight"... heck, apparently even some Christians out there now feel that things like not swearing, staying virgin till marriage, or anything like that is "insane".

 

[Fragglemuppet]

In some cases that may be true, but overall I'd say the parent better know what they're watching before they show it to their kid! Not that they necessarily have to watch everything before-hand, but word from friends who'd seen it before, finding out what the movie's about, just a little bit of common sense... All good ways to figure things out for yourself.
I'm not saying there should be no film ratings, but I do think they go way overboard sometimes. They try to shelter kids, and often wind up doing the opposite.