CensoredAlso
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I had the same sort of dreams; after awhile I took them as signs that she wasn't really too far away. But you know, even with the new puppy (who's wonderful! hehe), it still hurts to think too much about her. I think it is important to find a way to, as Wembley says, "Keep part of them alive in my memory."And I know how it is - when my dog died earlier this year, I didn't want to believe it, and I kept having dreams where she was alive and well. I didn't want to go home that weekend because I'd have to see her empty dog bed and her collar, and know that she wasn't coming back...but when I came home for a visit later on, I went out and sat by her grave for a little while, and it was rather comforting - as if she was just lying on her favorite pillow and looking up at me as if to ask "What are you looking at?" (She was a sweet dog, but like most German shorthaired pointers, she kind of had an ego.)
And even though the ending was a tad anti climatic, I liked the message that life goes on, just in a different form ("One day it's an ocean, one day ice in motion, one day it's a tear drop in your eye"). As much as I love the Mr. Hooper episode of Sesame Street, I was disapointed that they made death seem so final. I mean I know kids all have different beliefs and that should be respected, but to end up saying nothing felt wrong to me too. ::shrugs::