It's a lose-lose either way with society.
Yup.
I remember when Bob Newhart came to my town years ago and he began his old Driving Instructor routine, a lady in the audience actually heckled him for making it a woman driver, because it was sexist. "Oh, okay. Well, it doesn't have to be a woman driver. It can be a Chinese driver," he said before making a bunch of stereotypical-sounding Chinese gibberish, "I can do
that for eight minutes if you'd prefer." Guess it's better to be racist than sexist.
Don't worry, he still the routine with the woman driver, and it was still just as funny.