does anyone here have annoying family members ? and if so how do you deal with them ?

[scooterfan360]

i have a whole stack of them and i want to know how to deal with them like for one my mom she bothers me every second of my life and then there is my two sisters who conatsantly do things to tick me off like if i get something interesting or do something interesting they would try to compeate against me and do it too and get they their bratty kids to do the same and my mom makes me give her gas money for a car that i don"t drive and for cigarettes i don' smoke and my sisters they copy every thing i do just to show me up and i can"t enjoy a personal snack or meal without my mom constanly begging for some of it when it"s made for one and my dad is so lazy and patheic that he will not get a second job knowing that his one job is not paying him enough money and my mom she had knee sergery and turned around and found out that she had brest cancer and had surgery for that this happend in 2012 but recovered and now out of work and constanly annoys me with asking me for money for worthless stuff like tacky living room furniture and money to waste a the local casino and other things that do not benifit me and costanly asks for to use my stuff and asks do i have certain things like as if i was a general store or something and not only that my sisters don"t treat me like a sister they treat me like if i was like a maid or something and my grandfather he takes the tv over and watches the local news and world news seven times a day so i can"t watch what i want on tv it"s gotten to the point where i want to just rub them out of my life please somebody tell me how to deal with them

 

[D'Snowth]

Kill 'em.

 

[scooterfan360]

Kill 'em.

lol if it wasn"t concidered a crime i would

 

[Slackbot]

Move out on your own and take responsibility for your life.

 

[beatnikchick300]

Move out on your own and take responsibility for your life.

"Move out" is easier said than done in this economy.

 

[D'Snowth]

I second beatnikchick's comment, in this day and age, and in this trouble economy, you're pretty much better off still living at home, even if it does, "Cramp your style", or "Bruise your ego", or rob you of your freedom. Unless you're doing really, really well, or even filthy rich, the best you can possibly do in terms of moving out on your own is probably living in a cracker box apartment or condo in the ghetto. Either that, or move in with a friend out of convenience.

 

[fuzzygobo]

Moving out might be hard, but not impossible. I moved out when I was 19 to get away from my alcoholic father. It meant busting my butt to live on my own, living on a shoestring budget for a while, but for the freedom and peace of mind, it was worth it.

If you can't have a peaceful co-existence at home, you're better off on your own, or finding a couple friends to move in. Like I said, might be a challenge, but not impossible.

 

[D'Snowth]

We're not saying it's impossible, we're just saying it's rough especially in this day and age when it's difficult to make a buck to be able to afford to.

 

[charlietheowl]

Is it possible for you to stop giving your father money for silly things like furniture and gambling? I know it can be hard to say no to your parents, but you shouldn't have to support your dad's gambling habit. Maybe if you ask another family member or someone outside of the family that's close to your dad to help you express your feelings to him, it will aid the situation.

 

[scooterfan360]

"Move out" is easier said than done in this economy.

you took the words right out of my mouth