Dealing with depression and anxiety

[CensoredAlso]

I've learned sometimes things are easier said then done. People can't change so easily.

But that's the thing, I think if change is your goal, then nothing will change. Change has to happen like organically, ya know?

 

[Pinkflower7783]

It's just kinda irritates me when people are like "so just change." I mean it's not like changing from your clothes to your pajamas at night.

 

[Hubert]

Thanks Heralde, that really helped

 

[Pinkflower7783]

I thought I was helpful.

 

[CensoredAlso]

Thanks Heralde, that really helped

No problem; shy people have to stick together! Lol

 

[Pinkflower7783]

I consider myself only half shy.

 

[Mo Frackle]

It's just kinda irritates me when people are like "so just change." I mean it's not like changing from your clothes to your pajamas at night.

Seriously! The non-shy types just don't understand what we go through.

 

[AlittleMayhem]

Seriously! The non-shy types just don't understand what we go through.

Preach it brother!

 

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Seriously! The non-shy types just don't understand what we go through.

The thing is they are told from a young age that being "outgoing" is the better way to be and that's simply a myth. Outgoing and shy are just different from each other, but neither is better. You need both types in society.

 

[Pinkflower7783]

Yeah well it took me a long time and many years to be outgoing. A lot of my shyness came from going through school. I'm not saying I had a terrible time in school but I didn't have a good time either. But then again who did have it easy in school?