Thanks! Well, I do think parents want their kids to be happy. Which is good, of course. Life can be very hard for a kid who doesn't fit in. But I do think parents often spend too much time encouraging their kids to be "normal" and not encouraging individuality and strength of character. And again, later on they're stunned when their kids are doing exactly what they're unwise friends are doing. I do think a lot of the destructive behavior we see comes from an inherent lack of confidence and lack of love of oneself.
Not that parents shouldn't encourage their kids to be sociable, btw. People do need friends in this life, goodness knows.