Just from your statements I'm sure you'd make a wonderful mother. Appropriately worried. And as there is now a vaccine for chicken pox, it's on it's way to being irradicated here in the US. Too bad she was too little for the vaccine and still got it.
Now this statement though, there's just a little misunderstanding with:
You're lucky you never had the chicken pox Larxene! But be careful...when you're around someone that does have them & you haven't,you might get something called shingles(not the wood on the house type) It's more dangerous than chicken pox. And thanks for saying being a worrywart doesn't make me a bad parent.
You have to get the chicken pox before you can have shingles. Shingles occurs in adults who did have chicken pox and the virus (varicella zoster) "hibernates" on the nerve endings. When it acts up as shingles it is appearing on the end of the nerves and that is why it is so painful.
Adults who have not had chicken pox and become exposed to someone with shingles have the chance of then getting chicken pox.
It is said that chicken pox is worse for adults than children but I am uncertain of the truth to that statement.