I'm a newbie so I really don't understand all the reasons for leaving lately...It is true that some of the other places I belong to have less rules and no editing limit, but they also aren't nearly as nice as MC even at its worst.
You are quite correct!
To be honest, every forum has seasons. New people come, old people go. That's the way of forums. I don't necessarily think the forum changes as much as those members choosing to depart. Many times these members need to blame an external reason for their dissatisfaction that is mainly an internal shift.
When I have an issue with a member or the forum it is stated outright or in a PM if more delicate. It usually works or there is some sort of understanding reached. This place isn't perfect but it has been maintained for over a decade with no signs of ending. MC has had its bumpy times, but it is a far friendlier place than when I first arrived. Even now.
I believe life is for the living and forums are for active members. I don't like members to leave, but respect their decision even if I disagree with the grounds. I'm sad about the departure of members and hope they return, but I'm moving on. I'm going to focus on the people who show.
And welcome back wwfpooh! You have been missed.