You guys are all so disrespectful to me because you interpret me as a hateful jerk when I’m really not.
First of all, like
@fuzzygobo said, respect works both ways: you can't be disrespectful towards others, then expect others to be respectful towards you. It doesn't work like that, if your boy Trump is any example of this. You know why nobody respects him? Because he disrespects everybody who isn't wealthy, white, heterosexual, and fire-and-brimstone Christian - much like yourself. Nobody is entitled to respect; respect is earned . . . and how do you earn respect? By being respectful to others . . . and why do we intrepret you as a hateful jerk? Because you're disrespectful to a lot of people on this forum, especially our LGBTQIA members.
I am very popular in real life and I have a lot of real life friends.
I'm sure you are. Just like Trump says of himself: he's very popular and has a lot of friends - so, if he says it of himself, I'm sure it's the same with you.
Jesus said we would be hated for preaching the truth though, and that people would misinterpret us as a judgmental bigot, so I’m not surprised.
Again, there's a difference between teaching and Bible-thumping, and the latter is what you're guilty of. You're not preaching the Lord's word, you're ham-fisting, hammering, and shoving it down people's throats. You can spread His teachings without resorting to the hate-tactics that you do, but unfortunately, you won't, so that's why you come across as a judgmental bigot.
All of this is why more and more people in this day and age are turning away from God, Jesus, Christianity, and religion in general, because people like you are spreading false representations that God is a hateful, vengeful deity who has a ton of conditions when it comes to His love for mankind, that Jesus would ignore others who are in need of Him because they somehow don't measure up to His standards, and that Christianity is a religion of hate . . . in fact, it's because of people like you that an atheist friend of mine equates Christianity (and organized religion in general) as hatred, citing that religion shouldn't teach hate.
You're not surprised, because you're blinded by your own religious toxicity (like toxic masculinity).
I wish you all well. Praying for you all to become nicer to me.
"I hate these people, I hate those people, I hate this, I hate that, blah-blah-blah, you people really need to be nicer to me!" Are you Frank Burns?
Here's a better idea: instead of praying for us to be nicer to you, you should pray that the Lord will open your eyes to the errors of your own ways and help you become a better person to other people.