Yes, sorry for confusing people with outdated terms since the forums switched to a Facebookized format.
The PM option would now be the "Start a Conversation" link attached to a member's instant profile view.
"Forum mailer" was referant to the fact that when you clicked on a member's profile, if you wanted to contact them you had two options: Send member an email, or Send member a Private Message.
So forget the "forum mailer" bit and just go with the conversation option. However, if this is related to HV application submissions, I would advise you wait until January 7 as that will most probably end up being the date I'll admit requests from people already registered as part of the roster and new applicant hopefuls as well.